Anyone who has ever read the “Velveteen Rabbit,” by Margery Williams, knows there is a difference between real, and really real. It’s true love – and true sorrow – that divide the two. In the story, the Boy’s toy rabbit becomes “real” when the Boy loves him, but it isn’t until the rabbit is rejected, heartbroken, and cries a real tear, that he becomes really real to the rest of the world.