Did that title get your attention? Forgive my casual language: In my day job, I’m an AIDS researcher. Clearly, in the realm of disease transmission having more than one partner is not only being unfaithful, it is dangerous. But even though the word “partner” is used in the context of AIDS and church relationships, the similarities end there. A church partnership is not a marriage.  It is more similar to a friendship. While having more than one spouse is fraught with trouble – be it legal or relational – having more than one friend is desirable.  

Here is how having more than one church partnership is helpful.

One of the challenges in a cross-cultural relationship is knowing whether differences you encounter are based in context, and thus reflecting resources and opportunities; culture, reflecting a people; or in personality, reflecting a person. In the case of my church, The Chapel Hill Bible Church, we have had a relationship with Nairobi Chapel and it offspring for about 20 years. It started when Oscar Muriu, the senior pastor, first began pastoring Nairobi Chapel. The Chapel has since grown into a church larger than ours (we have about 800 people attending on a Sunday) with a vision to plant hundreds of churches throughout Africa and the rest of the world.  To what degrees do their growth and vision reflect their context, the Kenyan culture, and the personality of Oscar? (The Bible Church currently relates most closely to Mavuno Downtown, one of the Chapel’s off-shoots, but I’ll continue talking here about the Chapel.)

The context of Nairobi Chapel is a country with a strong business climate and culture. I have come to see this through the work of my organization, Africa Rising (www.africarising.org) which works with African organizations in Tanzania, Kenya, and Uganda. Kenya is strikingly different from either of its East African neighbors. The business culture of Kenya is giving rise to a fast-growing middle class, which is the demographic target of the Chapel. One huge asset of a church of middle-to-upper class people is their resources for bricks, mortar and staff. They are also responsive to a mission of enlarging the market.

The culture of Kenya is one that values status and hierarchy more than Western culture does. The technical way of putting it is that Kenya has a higher “power distance” than does, say, America. Generally, a Kenyan pastor receives more deference from his congregation than does an American pastor.  For this reason, a Kenyan pastor is likely to be more directive and his church less democratic than many American churches. In a healthy church, such as Nairobi Chapel, direction from the top can lead to laser-like focus and great efficiencies.

Oscar Muriu’s personality fits hand-in-glove with his context and culture. He is well educated, market-savvy, decisive, affable, and energetic. And let’s not forget deeply spiritual. He has found and mentored others who share his outlook and many of his skills. As an exceptionally effective mentor, he has realized much of his church-planting vision by placing like minded people in the new churches.