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Enabling the Disabled: A Story of Overcoming Disability

Author: Binu John
Date: 30.05.2012
Category: Disability Concerns

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September 14, 2006 was a memorable day, not only for Beena and Lavinson, but also for their families and friends. It was a day Beena, Lavinson and their loved ones had hoped for, while many people thought that this day would never come. It was a milestone in their lives.

Beena is a lovely young girl. Seeing her in a crowd, her beauty catches your attention. You may want to look at her more closely and you may even fall in love with her. But the moment you see her walking, your sentiments veer toward a poignant sense of sadness and sympathy.

The Story of Beena

Three years after her birth, Beena caught a severe fever and dysentery which eventually led to polio. Her right leg and her left hand were paralyzed. After many months of medical care, the doctors gave up their hope. Her parents exhausted their financial resources paying hospital bills. There was still no hope. Beena was doomed to become a life long disabled person.

Her parents were anguished as they envisaged her future. Some people advised mercy killing. That suggestion was heart breaking. Unthinkable! Such harsh words and the constant stares Beena received from neighbors caused frustration and anger for Beena and her family. Some people said that a curse had come upon the family. Other sources advised her parents to resort to witchcraft.

In Search of God

The family members of Beena were nominal Christians. Since their top priority was Beena’s healing, her parents tried all possible routes to find a cure, praying to various gods and goddesses to consulting a witch. However, while searching for different gods to help Beena, her family members were introduced to their own old family God who could heal her. As a family they began to trust Him. This time, He became their own personal God. That was the beginning of a great change in Beena’s life. She began to walk slowly, to lift her hand and continued to gain strength. This miracle moved the whole family from the status of being a nominal Christians to becoming genuine followers of Christ.

Sad, but Not Rejected

Seeing Beena with a disability, her parents and siblings were extremely sad, but they did not reject her. Her family was economically disadvantaged so they had their own limitations. Nonetheless, they looked after her the best way possible. She enjoyed the love and affection of her parents and dear ones and grew up in a healthy atmosphere. Parents were careful to make sure that she was not neglected, especially while attending the special functions and family celebrations.

In her school and college, teachers and friends never treated her differently. Her friends had a special concern for her and helped her in drawing water from a well, washing her clothes etc. All this kind help was important for her to feel accepted.

The Shattered Dream

Beena’s parents’ hopes for her began to fade as she became older. She turned 28. Who would marry a disabled girl? Her mother’s tears flowed each time she talked with people about her. Her mother often cried out “Why did God do this to my daughter?” Each time Beena raised the question “Why did you give birth to me?” her mother could not control herself. Beena was a matter of concern for the whole family.

Keywords: Disabled, physically challenged, Disability in India, Ministry of Care India Mission

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