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Rest in a Restless Society – A Godly Counterpoint to Busyness and Burnout

Author: Peter Houston
Date: 25.08.2010
Category: Media & Technology, Children & Youth, Forming Leaders

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I remember a few years ago we ran a youth camp over Easter.  We had nearly all of our campers sign up for a workshop on “Burnout” run by a Christian social worker.  There were other workshops but this issue was THE one.  I have also joined Facebook, which allows you to establish a virtual community on the web.  It is a phenomenal phenomenon

How are the two linked?  Here’s my hypothesis!  Busyness and over-commitment leads to burnout and a situation where an entire youth camp signs up for a single workshop.  Busyness and over-commitment precludes developing and experiencing real community: school activities and extra-murals, sport, a modern metropolitan lifestyle of living in different suburbs and having to drive everywhere fragments community.

I have a hunch that when I was a youth pastor the youth did not come solely to hear me preach on the weekend!  Rather it was the chance to meet up with friends at church, friends with whom there has been the bond of camps and fun, friends growing together in community.  Facebook allows a virtual community to continue during the week; a poor substitute for the real thing, but symptomatic of something deeper.  In these virtual communities young people can be individuals, not dictated to by the shoulds, the oughts and the musts of daily life, parents, school and the Christian religion.  This virtual community invites a moment’s freedom or escape from pressing concerns, probably offers an emotional lifeline and a chance to have a voice.  The pull can be strong.  The risks can be high – virtual worlds are an extension of the real world and realities are so easily mixed…

These two things – the oversubscribed burnout workshop and a lack of genuine community – point to the reality of busy and pressurized youth.  Call me a pessimist, but we are bound to see the fall-out from this lifestyle.  The mid-life crisis will be pre-empted by a ¼-life crisis!  But this message applies to adults too.  As church leaders we need to take up the challenge to help our Christian community be one that can find spiritual rest in the midst of a rest-less society.

I like Eugene Peterson’s phrasing of Matthew 11v28-30 (The Message) where Jesus says:  "Are you tired? Worn out? Burned out on religion? Come to me. Get away with me and you’ll recover your life. I’ll show you how to take a real rest.  Walk with me and work with me-watch how I do it. Learn the unforced rhythms of grace. I won’t lay anything heavy or ill-fitting on you. Keep company with me and you’ll learn to live freely and lightly."

Are we learning the unforced rhythms of God’s grace?  Are we living it out as church leaders and leading people into it?  I can’t help thinking that I am instead chasing the horizon along with many others I know, albeit a horizon with ministry and mission goals.    A poem by Stephen Crane goes thus:

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Keywords: Busyness, Burnout, Facebook, Rest, Grace, Truth, Jesus

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Amen!  I have fallen completely into this trap of business and it is not appealing to my ministry in the lives of youth and college students yet it seems to come so easy.  Retraining myself to rest has been one of the hardest things I’ve ever done.


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Great article!


28.08.2010

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